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Ursula K. Le Guin on Inventing Our Lives

"What do you want to be when you grow up?" Not who but what?

It's a question we were asked countless times as children. We had an astronaut phase, a singer phase, and a meteorologist phase. 

We dreamed of being astronomers, teachers, cooks, and mailmen. We…

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Be “The Man in the Arena”

It’s easy to criticize others as we sit in the sidelines. It’s easy to say that we can do it better. It’s easy to be the “cold and timid souls” who judge others for actually doing while we point and talk about doing.

It’s much…

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Small Rewards

Your goals won't come together based on impulse. They won't come together in a day.

Instead of attempting to do everything at once, set small daily goals that are realistic and achievable.…

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Rainer Maria Rilke on Loving the Questions

The answers to most questions are at the tips of our fingers. The digital encyclopedia we carry in our pockets is a gift. Almost everything we want to know is a Google search away.

But we often avoid asking the bigger questions because they are…

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Seeing versus seeing.

It's less about Seeing the Eiffel Tower than it is about showing everyone else that you've been to the Eiffel Tower. We get so wrapped up in taking pictures that we barely notice anything. We see but we don't See. We don't notice any…

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Share Every Day

I've been on a roller coaster ride with the level of commitment to this website over the past few years. I created it because I wanted to build a resource for perfectionists. A place where people could find the tools to get over their…

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Escape the Escape Artist Mindset

Fight or flight. As perfectionists, we almost always choose flight. We avoid. We run away. We escape because it iseasier than facing the risk of rejection, abandonment, and failure.

We escape trying new things because we don't know want to be bad at something. We…

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WebMD Syndrome

Definition: the tendency to think in worst-case scenarios with constant anxiety; continual catastrophic thinking

Yes, we've all done it: we feel a little sick, we Google our symptoms, and five minutes later, we have cancer. I call it WebMD syndrome, the tendency to attach our…